V A L U E S seem to be popping up for me at the moment, and the colour red (!), so, with this in mind, I’ve been pondering! (if you’d like to share anything also please do, for even more pondering :o)
So, values. In order to live fully aligned with our values it seems essential that we connect always with ‘like valued’ people (sounds simple enough!). The reason being that, even if ‘one’ of our values is misaligned with another, there is a compromise to be made. Then it can be a ‘system says no’ situation!!
If you are finding that your values, at times, are being compromised/violated (triggering internal stresses/conflicts/upset/hurt/anger/guilt/shame/etc) then it may be time to actually check in with ‘YOU’. Yes, it seems we are ultimately responsible for all that happens to us, (nee use blaming anyone else). So, questions we can ask:
Am I ‘fully’ aligned with my values? Do the actions I take and want to take ‘feel right’?
If not, then something in our system will tell us, in the form of a feeling. Feelings are lovely signals. As long as the feeling is to do with the current situation, in that moment, and not a remembered feeling from a past experience/exposure (letting go of any past emotional baggage is easier said than done of course (speaking from personal experience!), however, things most certainly can be let go of, changed and upgraded (and that’s when people like me are around to help xx)
Another question - Do I have any beliefs about the world/people that may be limiting me? (eg. Nothing ever goes fully right for me / I never can seem to find the right partner / etc)? This is important because these limited/unhelpful processes can be the ‘anchor to a ship’ and can oppose true values and create conflict internally within you
Also,whatever we focus on is what we see - buy that particular red car and you start to see them all over the place, right? And, whatever we focus on is what we get, it seems (drive your car to a certain direction and that's where it'll take you. Which leads me onto the next point.
If you believe (as in law of attraction) that we are little energy magnets (or big ones!), attracting whatever we project back to us, then we are attracting ‘like people’ etc. into our lives and situations that resonate with how we view our worlds actually all of the time. If ‘like attracts like’, with respect to the 'full us', or, ‘all of who we are’, that is, including our limiting processes, it could actually be our very own deep processes that attract people and situations in our lives that actually conflict/compromise our true selves (how mad!)
So, if ‘like people’ and opportunities are not turning up as much, then, and I’m going to say it again (sorry!), it really may be time for you to check in with you! As it could be down to some deeply routed limiting processes (from ‘life’s lovely programming’) that you aren’t conscious of, yet (our unconscious processes in other words).
So, to sum up:
1. Know what your true values are in the first place. Check out the attached link. Some of you may need to ‘drill down’ to get true values eg. Value=Money / gives you big house / gives you comfort for kids / gives you security / gives you safety / gives you PEACE. Therefore ‘peace’ would be the true value here
2. Surround yourself with ‘like valued’ people to reduce compromise/violation/upset/ hurt/anger/etc.
3. BE careful of new exposures/desires/wants. Notice internal stresses/conflicts. Are you ‘fully’ in agreement?
4. Clear limiting mind processes (with a qualified practitioner).
5. DO steps 1,2,3 again. Because, if we are truly responsible and if it really is ‘all about you’, by changing our internal worlds (processes), our external worlds will calibrate. As we become more conscious of all of who we are we can adapt and evolve.
It seems that the repeating thread through all of this is ‘responsibility’ for our own thoughts/feelings and, therefore, behaviours. We all have choices and whether we choose ‘the lesson to be learned’ (for want of a better word) or whether we find another option that fully encompasses our values, all ways, no matter what level we are at, are the result of our own thoughts and intent; our responsibility.
Hope me & you have a beautiful valuable day the day!
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